Discovering an affair doesn't come with a manual, until now. Written by Tara Simmer, MSN, RN, LNC, a legal nurse consultant who lived every page of this herself, this kit is four guides in one: what to do in the first 72 hours, the paper trail to secure before anything changes, exact scripts for the conversations you're dreading, and a directory so your first calls to a lawyer, therapist, or advisor actually count. No fluff. No judgment. Just what to do next.
SOUND FAMILIAR?
You don't know what to do first. Everyone around you has an opinion. None of them have a plan.
Your body feels like it's falling apart. You can't eat, can't sleep, can't stop shaking, and no one tells you that's a trauma response, not a breakdown.
You feel completely alone. Even surrounded by people who love you, no one understands what this actually feels like from the inside.
You don't know what counts as evidence, or what you're allowed to look at, copy, or keep before anything changes.
You're terrified of saying the wrong thing, whether that's to him, to a lawyer, or to your kids.
You don't know who to call first: a lawyer, a therapist, a friend, or no one at all.
WHY GET THIS NOW
You need answers tonight, not an appointment three weeks out.
You're done googling at 2am and getting nothing but conflicting advice from strangers.
You want a plan you can follow today, not a book to read someday when you feel stronger.
WHY TRUST THIS
I'm Tara Simmer, MSN, RN, LNC. I built this from two places: my professional work as a legal nurse consultant, and my own life. When my marriage was hit by infidelity, I couldn't find anything that told me what to actually do in the first 72 hours, just endless articles about feelings and nothing about paperwork, scripts, or who to call. This kit is new, so there are no reviews yet. What you're getting instead is my credentials and my word: I lived every page of this, and I wrote it the way I wish someone had handed it to me.
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